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One wrong move and you might risk losing her as a friend. It’s an extremely fragile situation and you’ve got to get it right the first time around.

One way is to capitalize on a concept called “Social proof” as it’s a very powerful psychological trigger that can really influence the way people act.

Social Proof is all about human nature and CONDITIONING.

As humans we do things based on what other humans do.

We are more likely to make a decision or take an action when we have seen PROOF that someone else has also made the same decision.

The choice becomes that much easier when we realize people “just like us” (similar demographics) have made the exact same choices too.

It’s like I’m walking to a football game to go to my seat and 40,000 people in front of me are lined up going through the gates waiting to enter the stadium.

Instead of analyzing where to go , I’ll just follow along with the crowd.

It’s sort of like monkey see, monkey do. We are very, VERY much influenced by people around us, especially if we feel people around us are similar to us.

And that’s the underlying concept behind social proof.

Same applies here. If you want her to see you differently as sexual man, rather than just as someone who’s platonic, social proof is a powerful concept because, if we can subtly “demonstrate” to women that other women, just like them, are attracted to us, are interested in us, enjoy hanging out with us or they simply want us, they are more likely to make the same decision.

Women feel attraction toward men in the company of other women!

The fact is that women are VERY competitive creatures.

Especially when it comes to men.

The good news is that if you know how to take advantage of this, and BRING OUT that sense of COMPETITION in a woman, you will be able to make a woman feel STRONG feelings of attracting for you VERY quickly and get her to be your girlfriend.

And social proofing is one of the most powerful ways to bring out her ‘catty’ side AND to increase your sexual value to her as a man.

The bottom line is that this stuff is POWERFUL, it triggers ATTRACTION, and it communicates to a woman that you GET IT, AND it helps you to reach inside and touch a woman in a way she’s always wanted, and in a way that she responds to powerfully.

I feel it’s time that we as men started learning more about how women work, what they respond to, and how to TRIGGER those powerful feelings of ATTRACTION in the woman that YOU desire.

I’m so convinced that this program is the BEST of its kind out there (actually, it’s the ONLY of its kind) and I’m so convinced that it WILL help you GET HER (whether it be a friend or someone you’ve just recently met), that I will send it to you to try AT MY RISK.

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One of the FASTEST ways to turn a friend over to a lover is to make her JEALOUS. You must make her see you as a MAN.

And to do that, it’s all a matter of building up your SEXUAL VALUE in her eyes.

Making someone jealous is one of the quickest ways to establish your sexual value and turn a friend in to your girlfriend.

By showing that your interest is elsewhere (therefore making her jealous), you are effectively cutting off what she USED to have with you; the wonderful, happy times she spent with you, subconsciously, it’ll make her *realize* that she DOES in fact, have feelings for you.

Let it be TOTALLY ON HER at that point to feel it, to think about it, to come to the conclusion on her own.

So what you can do is to specifically bring up another woman or a past experience with a girl in great detail.

Example:

The next time you and your chick friend heads to the record store, pick out a one-of-a-kind bootleg Colbie Caillat CD.

She’ll go, “You don’t listen to Colbie.” And you’ll smile and say, “I know, but this girl I met recently really digs her, and I know she’d love this.”

She’ll be impressed by your thoughtfulness, miffed that she doesn’t score suitors like that, and wondering what this woman’s got that makes you treat her so well.

Lay on a week more of the “Oh I always do this kinda stuff, just I never thought you’d bother” before admitting in a tender, unguarded moment that sometimes it’s being with the wrong person that truly makes you realize who’s right…

Here you’re playing yourself up as a prime boyfriend material AND making her jealous at the same time…

Be extremely DESCRIPTIVE and GRAPHIC when you are relating your story to her- up to a point where she can actually picture your story in her mind- almost to the point of ‘tasting’ it.

Offer the vivid details until you can sense she starts getting uncomfortable.

Tell her how Kathy’s body is killer, talk about how Kathy has the most flawless features you’ve ever seen in a girl…

Get her to have an image of how much fun the both of you had together, the teasing, touching, playing and all.

Tell her…

“I was shocked when Kathy showed up at my office today with pizza. Gotta love her for that”

Just keep it going whenever you’re with her…

“Kathy told me that the best deals are on the East side of town”

“Kathy said the funniest thing the other day…”

“I was picking up laundry last night and the owner was wondering where my girlfriend was… I was like who?? The brunette you were with the other day…” I was like … what?
Kathy? Oh please… I mean could YOU imagine both Kathy and me?”

Kathy, Kathy, Kathy…

Do it long, hard and subtle enough, and you’re bound to see how she’ll change when she’s with you…

You will know if you were successful if:

– She tries to talk bad about the girl/s in some way. (It’s her defensive mechanism).
– She suddenly goes into silence and appears kind of withdrawn – this is when she is reflecting
– She gets annoyed, agitated, pissed at you for bringing it up

Bottom line: “How do I turn a friend into a girlfriend…”

You like her, but you’re afraid of screwing your relationship up if she didn’t feel the same and things become awkward between the both of you. It’s every guy’s
ultimate nightmare.

There’s nothing trickier, more fragile than turning a friend to a lover, and if you want to get it ‘just right’ and land that one girl you’ve always wanted, these videos
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The age-old answer to turn a friend to be something more?

Variety.

Variety is EVERYTHING and it rings true in ALL aspects of your interactions with women if you want to turn a friend to be your girlfriend.

The more emotions she feels around you, the stronger an impression you’ll make. The more interesting things she learns about you and tells you about herself, the more deeply she’ll feel connected to you.

And the more places she visits and things she does and sees with you, the longer she’ll feel she’s known you.

And the longer a woman who is attracted to you has known you, the more inclined she will be to acting on that attraction and go further with you into a deeper, more “romantic”
relationships.

What you want is for your girl to come with you on a handful of different adventures, you want to keep stirring up emotions in her; happy, sad, annoyed, angry, irritated, fun, sensual, sexual, flirty, etc… it doesn’t really matter.

Have you had friends who just couldn’t seem to see eye to eye with one another, who couldn’t stand one another, always arguing, quarrelling and suddenly one day you see the both of them hooking up together as a couple?

I have.

Many times.

Why and how did it happen?

The tension was always there, emotions were stirred, without them realizing it, the constant provocation of emotions were actually setting up the stage for a deeply,
passionate relationship.

So again, it’s really more about MEMORIES you create in her and less about the TIME you know each other that sparks attraction in a woman.

Sharing more experiences in a shorter amount of time makes a closer, DEEPER connection.

The premise of distorting a woman’s senses to spark attraction is based on a psychological phenomenon known as Response Facilitation (RF).

This is the process of strengthening the dominant response in a particular situation. You are going to use it to strengthen her emotional responses and get her to REALLY
like you and see you a little more than a friend.

This is how it works.

Understand that emotions basically consist of two parts: a cognitive component (what you’re thinking) and a physiological component (what you’re feeling).

The cognitive, “thinking component” determines WHAT emotion you’re feeling… while the physiological, “feeling component” determines the INTENSITY of that
emotion.

For example, if you’re thrilled with someone, you’re thinking all kinds of “exciting” thoughts about that person (This is great fun! Can’t wait to do this again!).

You’re also experiencing certain physiological sensations throughout your body that indicate that you’re excited such as an increased heart rate, increased
blood pressure, mild sweating, adrenaline surging throughout your veins, etc..

And the more intense the physiological aspects become, the more exhilaration you FEEL.

The state of being thrilled has more to do with the cognitive, “thinking” component, than with the physiological, “feeling” component.

You’re thinking “thrilling” thoughts first and your body starts reacting to what you are thinking.

Use states of PHYSIOLOGICAL arousal to intensify her emotional responses. Remember, the arousal part of emotions is pretty similar from one emotion to the next, and the amount of arousal present determines the INTENSITY of the experienced emotion.

Now that you understand this, you’ll have to think of ways to come up with situations where she is highly likely to experience increased levels of arousal, and to pair YOURSELF with that arousal.

So, in a nutshell, you should be able to take a girl who likes you (someone who has mild physiological arousal when you’re around) and make her REALLY like you, by adding “extra” arousal to the situation.

The extra arousal will add up with that that is already present so as to increase the intensity of her emotional response toward you.

So how do you go about it doing it?

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You do it by simply doing enjoyable AND arousing things together by having fun AND amping up the teasing, flirting and sexual tension when you’re together.

Most of these activities involve doing something FUN and extremely enjoyable that appeals to her five senses.

FUN and arousal, if you don’t already know, always leads to LOVE and PASSION.

For example…

You can take her to an amusement park.

The crazy rollercoasters, drenching waterslides, breath-taking ferri wheels will not only increase her heart rate but also her sense of arousal.

It gives you both a chance to hug one another, to accidentally touch, kiss, hold one another, and so on…

As you’re both getting onboard the rollercoaster, you give her your hand, she grabs it, you hold on to it, you look deep into her eyes, if she doesn’t let go, it means she likes
it.

As you’re flying up and down, if she’s comfortable with you, she might hug on to you and you grab on tightly to her and bring her closer into you.

You can playfully kiss her and tell her “Janice, this is to calm you down”.

The smallest of things, the simplest of things works wonders, the activities you’re doing together will give you unlimited opportunities and chances to go kino, to get physical with her, unlike everyday shopping and boring talk will ever do.

It won’t look like you’re taking advantage or that you’re trying to put a move and on her because it’s as NATURAL as it can ever be!

It’s really a very powerful way to turn a friend into a lover.

In other ways to turn a friend to a girlfriend, you need to intensify her feelings; take her to these places so that she loses track of time passing.

Take her to a place where there are constant ACTIVITY and MOVEMENT so she gets caught up in the atmosphere – embark on some kind of journey together, distract her mind with new sights, new people, new experiences.

The pace of your seduction and attraction effort must pick up at a certain moment to create a whirling effect in her mind.

The point is for you to get creative in creating OPPORTUNITIES for yourself in order for her to see a WHOLE NEW SIDE to you that she’s NEVER seen and experienced before.

if you’ve always been clueless and wondering…

“How do I turn a friend into a girlfriend?”

“How do I nail that ONE girl who only treats me as a friend?”

“How do I get out of the friend zone and get her to see me as
a LOVER?”

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One of the most frequently asked questions we got over the last few months was from guys who have fallen for a female friend and want to know how they can take their relationship to the next level. Well, let me ask you. How do you take a great friendship and turn it in to a great romantic relationship? You’re already friends, so it should be easy, right?

Not so fast. There are some simple and some not-so-simple things you can do. However, you need to be careful. You only get one chance to get it right.

If you’ve been relegated to “The Friend Zone”, there’s a very good chance the object of your affections SIMPLY DOESN’T SEE YOU (that’s an important piece of the puzzle of how you ended up in the Friend Zone in the first place). I don’t mean she’s blind or needs glasses. You are just not showing up on her sexual radar.

It’s like those movies, usually romantic comedies, where the ghost is trying to get a living person to notice them. The living person spends three quarters of the movie oblivious to the ghost’s subtle efforts. The ghost usually has to go and do something drastic before the person “sees” them. “Drastic”, when it’s done right, can convey everything you need to show up a as blip on her radar. When it’s done wrong, you’re no longer in a cute romantic comedy, you’re waist deep in a horror film and I can pretty much guarantee you’ll never see this girl again (been there, done that).

I don’t recommend “drastic” as a strategy (you may have realized things don’t turn out in life the way the do in movies). If you are tempted to try it, have a buddy tie you down (if necessary) – your emotions will prompt you to do crazy things and this is a situation that requires you to use your wits, no profess your undying love. That may sound counter-intuitive to you, but trust me, it could save your relationship.

So what do you do?

Well, I thought I would ask someone who has spent years trying to figure out the answer to the question “How do you turn a friend into your girlfriend?” This guy has written a couple of books and even put together a “Home Study Course” together on this subject. You could even call him an “expert”. The person I’m talking about is Simon Heong and he’s agreed to come on-board as a “guest blogger” and talk to us about getting your friend, who’s a girl to be your girlfriend. Look out for his first post in a couple of days.

You can check out his Home Study Course here

You may have noticed, we’ve been pretty quiet lately. You have hardly heard a peep from us. It’s true, we haven’t really put up anything new on the site for quite some time. You may have even thought we were DEAD. But just like a George Romero zombie, we’re re-animated and ready to bite into your brain. We’re making a commitment to deliver you more and better information as we head into summer.

Life (or in this case – Cyberdeath) can be very time consuming. We’ve been busy out in the field with our trainers and students, hanging out in the Dating Labs and coming up with great ideas – most of them need some fine tuning before we roll them out, but the seeds are there and we’re all very excited about them. Mostly though, we’ve been checking out the social scene, “coffee dating” by the pound and meeting up with average Joes and Janes, like you, to find out what’s on your collective dating minds and what and where we can do to help the most and best. Since we can’t possibly meet with everyone out there – you can always send us your ideas, fears, frustrations and suggestions. We want to hear them all.
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