When we have a romantic interest in someone, we want them to see us at our best. We typically dress to impress and tell a few stories that portray us in a positive light. We dab on a little extra cologne. We use our best make-up. We will even rent a sports car and turn up the charm, all to make a good impression.
Last Sunday, my girlfriend and I participated in CIBC’s “Run for The Cure”; both a walk and run raising funds and awareness for breast cancer. The magnitude of the event was striking. While we were trying to keep warm just before the start of the race, she noted that this would be a great place for guys to meet women. Afterall, there were about two hundred women for every guy in attendance.
I started thinking about how a woman might feel about a guy running for what is considered by most to be a “woman’s cause” (even though, about 2000 men in North America contract the disease every year). When we talked about it some interesting points came up:
1. You’ll generate a sense of mystery as to why you are there.
2. You are showing an awareness of issues beyond the snags in the latest X-Box release.
3. You are demonstrating a desire to contribute back to society.
4. You’ll be perceived as someone who is able to handle tough problems when they come up.
5. You are putting your humanity on display.
All of these qualities are extremely attractive to women and if you are open & friendly, don’t be surprised when you find yourself the center of attention.
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