Dating 336: Break ups
Author: webmasterWhether you are leaving your relationship or your relationship has left you, what this section is really about is managing your emotions and healing your heart. It can almost be as heartbreaking for the person ending the relationship as the one being castaway. Rarely is there a best way to end a relationship.
If your having trouble in your love relationship, you may be having problems in your other relationships as well. How well you relate to your family, friends, and co-workers has a direct impact to how you will or do relate to “that special someone”. If you are going to have a better connection with them, you first need to build a better connection to yourself. Handle all “parting of the ways” with tact and fairness in mind because the other person is merely a reflection of your own input. There is NEVER only one person responsible when a relationship ends.
Sometimes, problems arise because the other person, in an attempt to spare our feelings, will excuse the obvious with a different reason for the change in their behaviour. This only serves to make matters worse. We humans are a lot more complex than we give ourselves credit for being. When someone says they “have a feeling about” someone or something, what they really mean is that one of their “radars” has detected something in the environment that seems out of place. If you are at all engaged in the relationship, it is pretty easy to see signs the relationship is over without your partner having to say very much. It’s just hard admitting that after all the effort you have poured into it, that it is ending.
