Where Singles Dare To Click

I truly believe that Internet Dating is one of the best ways to meet new people, have a great time and, if you really connect with them, fall in love. I tried a variety of sites, but the one that offered the best value for my dollar, had the most versatility and supplied a robust selection of qualified potential dates was the one that was originally recommended to me: Lavalife

One of the greatest benefits you will ever realize from dating over the internet is the leveraging of your most powerful and limited resource: your time. The second greatest benefit that online dating provides is exposure to people you would have otherwise never met, ever, even if you lived to be 200.

Of all the sites I have tried, I would have to recommend Lavalife. Although, I may be somewhat biased as that’s where I met the amazing woman whom I have been dating for nearly two years. We’re getting serious and making plans for the future. Yes, you can meet quality singles online. And yes, you are more likely to find them on paid sites, like Lavalife. Although the dating site’s structure has changed since I was a virtual denizen there, their gregarious spirit still remains.

No longer a credit based, pay as you go, site, they have evolved in to a reasonably priced ($29.99/mo) membership site. This change has also allowed them to offer more options, particularly when it comes to posting photos. You can post your profile in up to three categories: Dating, Relationship and Intimate Encounters. And their are a plethora of ways to contact the object of your desire: IM, video, e-mail, online chat, etc…

FREE members can still send “smiles” to let people know they are interested and they can respond to e-mail. They just are not able to initiate them and are restricted in the number of photos they can post.

Your approach, and what I found worked best for me (and will for you, since you are truly looking to connect deeply with others) should be to:

* be honest and open with everyone one you encounter
* not take things personally (make “Next!” your motto if things don’t work out)

Follow those two bits of advice and you’re well on your way to making Lavalife or whichever site you choose, a rewarding experience. Give it a try. Write a profile. You may be surprised.