The Best Dating Advice

By: Simon Heong

Turning a friendship into a relationship is tricky.

One wrong move and you might risk losing her as a friend. It’s an extremely fragile situation and you’ve got to get it right the first time around.

One way is to capitalize on a concept called “Social proof” as it’s a very powerful psychological trigger that can really influence the way people act.

Social Proof is all about human nature and CONDITIONING.

As humans we do things based on what other humans do.

We are more likely to make a decision or take an action when we have seen PROOF that someone else has also made the same decision.

The choice becomes that much easier when we realize people “just like us” (similar demographics) have made the exact same choices too.

It’s like I’m walking to a football game to go to my seat and 40,000 people in front of me are lined up going through the gates waiting to enter the stadium.

Instead of analyzing where to go , I’ll just follow along with the crowd.

It’s sort of like monkey see, monkey do. We are very, VERY much influenced by people around us, especially if we feel people around us are similar to us.

And that’s the underlying concept behind social proof.

Same applies here. If you want her to see you differently as sexual man, rather than just as someone who’s platonic, social proof is a powerful concept because, if we can subtly “demonstrate” to women that other women, just like them, are attracted to us, are interested in us, enjoy hanging out with us or they simply want us, they are more likely to make the same decision.

Women feel attraction toward men in the company of other women!

The fact is that women are VERY competitive creatures.

Especially when it comes to men.

The good news is that if you know how to take advantage of this, and BRING OUT that sense of COMPETITION in a woman, you will be able to make a woman feel STRONG feelings of attracting for you VERY quickly and get her to be your girlfriend.

And social proofing is one of the most powerful ways to bring out her ‘catty’ side AND to increase your sexual value to her as a man.

The bottom line is that this stuff is POWERFUL, it triggers ATTRACTION, and it communicates to a woman that you GET IT, AND it helps you to reach inside and touch a woman in a way she’s always wanted, and in a way that she responds to powerfully.

I feel it’s time that we as men started learning more about how women work, what they respond to, and how to TRIGGER those powerful feelings of ATTRACTION in the woman that YOU desire.

I’m so convinced that this program is the BEST of its kind out there (actually, it’s the ONLY of its kind) and I’m so convinced that it WILL help you GET HER (whether it be a friend or someone you’ve just recently met), that I will send it to you to try AT MY RISK.

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Halloween may still be months away. And you find the idea of dressing up in a costume to go out in public and garner the favor of strangers galling.

Yet, that is exactly what we all do, everyday. We “put on our best face”, “dress for success” and “take on the world. The truth is, we are all insecure (and some would say we’re conditioned to be this way from an early age). It’s in the way we are raised. In generations gone by, stepping out of your cultural norms or expectations could lead to public shaming. Of course this only works if you care about what others think.

There’s a school of thought that says this desire for getting other people’s approval is hardwired in us from the days we had a tribal culture when it was a struggle just to stay alive. Here, being in everyone’s good graces meant you had the protection and resources of the group to help you live another day.

We remain affected by this desire today. We are still under a lot of pressure to make sure we are well received by strangers, whether it’s a job interview or a first date. If we completely tank, on an emotional level, we feel that loss, that primal pain of not being accepted, deeply, as though those tribal conditions still existed.

Unfortunately, this emotional angst pops up continually in our dating lives. We have given it much more authority than it deserves in our modern times and even tied it in how we perceive ourselves. Many of us, fueled by this innate desire to be accepted, are prone to bargaining away the very thing that others find attractive about us.

When we attempt to trade our power in a relationship for acceptance, we present a less than desirable picture of who and what we are. The situation reeks of someone who does not value themselves and feels they have to resort to bribery to gain affection. Do Not let this be you. You’re better than that. I know you are.

The mask you want to wear; the portrait you want to convey, the one that turns heads, is one of cavalier disregard balanced with an up-beat attitude, a positive outlook, self-determined action, an insatiable curiosity about the world & the people in it, and a fixed determination to accomplish the goals you have decided are worthwhile.

Show the world this is the person you are and they will “beat down your door” to meet you.